Woman are alot more sensitive than most men so the fact that your child's father has moved on can be heartbreaking to some. I happen to be a baby momma but I am apart of a new breed of baby mommas. The new breed are the ones who have evolved from the typical drama. Ladies if you find yourself in love with a man and you have a child together and it doesn't work out try not to be bitter. This only makes you look like your still in love with him. Even if you are in love there are different ways to go about it. First off if you find out he has a new girlfriend don't drive around trying to find her so you guys can fight. Sure this might make you feel better for a minute (if you win) but just think all you have done is bring them closer now she is at his house and he is playing doctor on her, or he will see that she is willing to take a ass whooping just to be with him. Second do not use your kids as ponds. If you have a little boy keeping him from his father is only going to hurt him in the long run. Every boy needs a father figure if he has a good father let him spend time with him. And if you have a little girl, having her father in her life is a sure fire way of improving her chances of staying off the pole...Hey this is just my opinion! Woman be apart of the new breed of baby mommas and let go of the bitterness and work with your baby daddy try to find common ground. By nagging him and just trying to make his life hell is another way of showing him that leaving you was a great choice. If your baby daddy broke up with you and you want him back show him how strong you are by not giving him hell every chance you get.
" it takes alot more energy to hate someone than it does to try and get along."
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