Never let them see you sweat....

How many of you have been chillin with your man or woman and the conversation starts to turn in to a debate then next thing you know your yelling at each other? I don't know about y'all but i believe in the statement when it rains it pours! You could be happy and then next thing you know your job messed up your check then yours kid comes in with a bad report card then to top it off your spouse is ready to argue...What do you do? I say keep your cool. Ladies don't let them see you sweat. Hold your composure . When the woman of the house is upset everything will be in disarray. As a woman you have alot of power of how the vibe of your home is controlled. I tell a friend of mine all the time to just keep her cool because he is feeding off your energy. Men want to be strong and the ruler of there castle and this is all fine and dandy until the shit hits the fan. They let the pride sometimes get in the way of thinking rationally. In the time of crisis it is the woman that holds it all together....sorry guys but it is what it is! Woman are always prepare for something way out to pop off its in our nature we have had it in us since we were younger. I was in high school and m friend had a woman issue at school we were like in the ninth grade she was wearing a pretty yellow skirt and she was a wreck because it was lunch time and the security was not letting anyone go off campus. she told me the scoop i had her changed and called up my older home girl to act like her sister and get her out of school....I just kept my cool. There are going to be times when things are good but as woman we don't let are guard down and i think that is not a bad thing. Be prepared ladies stay strong and never let them see you sweat....Keep your cool and your whole world will follow in footsteps!