Friday, August 28, 2009
The definition of a real man
My first blog was called the definition of a real woman. So believe it is only right to share my opinion of the true definition of a real man. Now and days strong men do not receive the credit they deserve. This is mostly caused by weak men in the past who have given men the title of cheaters and dogs. We have to stop beating down all men ladies because no 2 men are the same, just as we are not all the same. So what is a real man? well is basically the same #1 answer for whats a real woman and that is STRONG! A real man is strong and focused. A real man will bypass all the bullshit that comes his way. He will hold it down for his family (if he has one) and will take responsibility for all of his actions. He will allow his spouse to also be strong. A real man doesn't care about sharing the spot light with his spouse because he is confident within him self. I get so tired of hearing people bring men down. Because they have been let down by a man during there life. Whether it be there fathers or the husband/boyfriends. There is something about a man that handles his business and keeps it real. If you don't want to be in a committed relationship just man up and tell her you don't want to be committed. Also woman we need to stop thinking men are weak because they show us a little emotion. A mans heart breaks just like ours. I have been in public and seen woman talk there man down. This is one of my biggest pet peeves. Some woman do this thinking this is cute or for bragging rights in front of their girlfriends. In my mind all I'm thinking is she thinks she is tough but she is in a relationship with a pansy. If she was a real woman she would need a real man.....I want to make my man feel good all the time because he deserves it. Ladies give the guys a break sometimes. Men keep doing your thing and hold it down.
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I completely agree with this. There are a lot of real men out there. Sometimes I think women find real men in different stages of their life and therefore a woman either being insecure or to proud tend to bring the man down to a level that they can handle them. Belittling. Just as a real woman a real man will not disrespect, belittle or offend their significant other in public. They leave that for behind clothes doors. But that doesn't mean that small gestures, looks and body language can not be expressed. I feel that more than not black men get the "you're not real man speech" When really giving the situation, circumstances they are, but we as women have to respect that. When I see the smallest man-up gesture I applaud it, because repeative reinforcement helps a man be more confident and there for makes you more confident and the relationship. So support your men.
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