Keeping that spark alive.

Everyone knows that in the bargaining of the relationship you always have the butterflies. About how long does it last before those feeling start to go away? Is there anything we can do to keep that feeling alive? I say YES! It all goes back to what I have said before don't allow yourself to get to comfortable. By allowing yourself to get comfortable you might as well look right at your spouse and say I'm done impressing you. As women we are looked upon from society as the eye candy. We have a image to up hold at all times. If we are not having a good day and don't feel like getting dolled up were being lazy. When a man doesn't feel like getting dressed up he is rugged or relaxing. Of coarse its not fair but that's life. So I say Ladies keep the spark alive by bringing new things to the table. Try different looks and take him out sometimes. Get into things he is into. Always think outside of the box with your man. Remember all the reasons he feel in love with you in the beginning. Understanding your man is a sure fire way to keep him interested in you. By understanding your man I mean find out why he likes a what he likes. If he like Football take him to a game and set up the tailgating party. You will see him bond with his buddies and understand why he just enjoys being with his friends. Another way is to not nag! As woman we are creatures of habit we know when something has been moved an inch in out homes and want everything done when we want it done. Nothing is wrong with this but we have to understand guys aren't like this. If you hung a new picture on the wall and they don't notice it right away don't nag them about why they didn't see it and that they don't appreciate what you do around there...Just show him the dam picture. It will make you life a whole lot easier. There are alot of things we as woman can do to keep the flame burning on high in our relationship, but I will say this it is a whole lot easier to keep it going then to let it blow out completely and have to light it again....

Let us know ladies what do you do to keep that spark going???