I don't know about you all but I'm tired of all the websites and blogs that want to sugar coat everyday life. I want to create a place where only real woman can relate. So what is the difference between a fake woman and a real woman? A real woman is strong, focused, beautiful and most of all true to herself at all times. A fake woman is.... well there not even worth mentioning. As I get older this is a something I can spot in other women. Come on ladies you walk into a party and you can spot the sistas out that you could see yourself shopping with and the ones who look like they are flat out messy. Me and my bestfriend say we only have one female friend and that's each other. I hear a lot of my cousins and acquaintances say " I don't do females". But sometimes i miss those girly chats on the phone with other woman, So i sit back and wonder is it me or do friendship end once you get married and have kids Or better yet once you complete school? I don't know what to think about this but i do know sticking to me and mines sure does seem to keep me drama free . So with all of that being said I figured we could all share our thoughts and storiss and have a sisterhood for all the real woman to sit back with a glass of wine and read,laugh and most of all always keep it REAL!!!
-Unparagoned Woman
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I think you are totally right les. I am a happily married woman with an 8 year old and no friendships with your gal pals do not end. They nake you closer you still need someone outside of your home that can help keep you sane, to go out with and have drinks or just chat about life. The problem with me is I can't find any other female but you Les. Women these days hate on eachother so bad, they are jealous of you they hate you have found a loving and honest relationship, job and you have respect for yourself. When they are going around sleeping with any man that smiles at them. It makes me upset to see how so many women have no respect for themselves and instead of changing the way they lead their life they just hate on the ones who they want to be like, they try to hate on you steal your man or sabotage anything because they are so unhappy. I don't get it. Do women
ReplyDeleteknow that these men do not havbe power, don't they know these men wouldn't be able to disrespect you, call you a whore, and treat you like one if these women would stand up keep your legs closed. I don't get it, back in the day men had to wine and dine women, treat them with respect and stick around for a woman to give up the ass, now days all a manhas to do is smile, show interest, hell even pull up in a nice car or flash some money, and these women are like hell yeah. When in these men's mind they are like look at this whore, i'm out before she has a chance to close her legs. It's like don't these women know what men think about them. Don't they know if they have no respect for themselves noone else will especially a man. I don't get it. what pisses me off is when me and my husband started dating, women and men who I thought were my friends hated on me and my husband and that hurt, they were so jealous of us, the girls would hate on me and try to fight me because my husband never gave them a second glance, and they couldn't understand what it was about me. The guys would hate on my husband because i never gave them a second look but when my husband came along he got me. Instead of them stepping back and saying good for you guys or what was it about him/her that made them want eachother but not us. It's like take a step back if you didn't sleep with everyone you come in contavt with, or throw yourself at men just being plain easy and get up and have some respect for yourself maybe you could find a good man like the one the lord blessed me with. Women are haters they always will be. I am sick of it, I had to fight all the time becaue of women hating on me, it's stupid it's childish. When are women going to realize that their downfall in this world is them. I mean do we as strong women think it's okay to have 5 babies by 5 different men, to depend on a man for everything, to sleep with whoever you meet, to not raise your kids with morals and how to have self respect, to not get off our asses and get a job to support ourselves. I mean our young girls are coming up pregnant at such young ages, not finishing school, what is the problem. Little 5 year old girls dancing and popping their asses like they are grown, that is not cute. It's just amazing to me how people coplain about there life or be jealous when they do nothing to change it. This is a sad world and really if you don't have god in your life you are going the wrong way. I mean what keeps you from sleeping with everyone, keeps you from disrespecting people, keeps you from stabbing people-friends in the back, you can't say oh my morals and the respect I have. No what keeps you from that is the fear of the lord, to know that you will guaranteed burn in hell for those things, the fear that you will not go to heaven the fear you will never see your family again, then come the morals and respect but always god first, and it is sad to say but the world has lost that. these are the times we need him the most and people act like he doesn't exist, I mean look at scientology, what they really believe man made everything. I think not. Get in your bibles and get out of the jelousy, hating. Get your own YOU ARE NOT AND NEVER WILL BE RESPECTED AS A REAL WOMAN IF YOU CAN'T CLOSE YOUR LEGS, IF YOU CAN'T TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, IF YOU CAN'T GO ON WITHOUT SOME MAN, AND MOST OF ALL IF YOU CAN'T PUT THE LORD FIRST. AND I FEEL SORRY FOR THOSE WOMEN/THOSE PEOPLE. IT SUCKS I AM A DAMN GOOD WOMAN AND I HAVE NO WOMEN FRIENDS BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO DO THE RIGHT THING, BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO LOVE THE LORD, BE HONEST, HAVE RESPECT AND MORALS FOR MYSELF, LOVE MY HUSBAND AND ONLY MY HUSBAND AND THAT IS SAD. I LOVE YOU LES THANKS FOR MAKING THIS BLOG, I NEEDED TO VENT.
ReplyDeleteYes cousin we need this blog to come and talk about real shit! I love you so much. I'm so proud of you
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