The many hats of woman..

As we know ladies we grew up watching our grandmothers. She would cook and clean all day! They grandpa would come home and they would spend the rest of the evening together. She was a homemaker and held down the fort while her man was away at work. Then we grew up watching our moms a lot of them had part time jobs and would take care of the home when they weren't at work. Now times are different we play those roles that grandma played and mom played. We are professional woman, Strong and Intelligent, not saying our moms weren't but times have made woman have to switch up fast. in the past three generations we have done a complete 360. So how do you balance the job, the kids, the man and the friends. I say it takes strength and determination. Women put your kids first and the rest will follow. The other order to which you choose to prioritize is solely your choice. I know having the career brings you power and money but when your kids are messed up in the head there is only so much power and money will do to help them. I know having a man can bring you pleasure and having friends can bring you respect but again neither one of these should come before your children. I have been blessed with a beautiful family that i Cherish everyday. I have also been blessed with friends that have good relationships with there children. I say ladies if you see your friends doing there kids wrong say something you can be a friend and voice your opinion about what your beliefs are. She might really need to hear it from a true friend. We wear many hats some hats are made like friendships some hats are found like love some hats are earned like a career but to me the most precious hat you could ever wear is the hat you create yourself like your children.