Addicted to heartache

Why is it that the ones we want don't want us back? Sure there are a few ladies that have met there soul mates and are in a loving bliss as I type this and there are some ladies who feel like they need to change something about themselves to get the guy. So you have to sit back and think...Are some woman addicted to heartache? Is the man on your arm treating you so good, doing everything for you and then some but you just cant seem to see yourself with. It all goes back to when we were little girls and the little boy walks up to you and hits you. you cry at first but next thing you know your chase him just so he can chase you back. i know for some woman its all about the chase. That's why some woman go after these raggedy men that don't have anything going for themselves and do want them. I wonder if i ever didn't talk to the guy in school that would have done anything for me to notice him because i was too busy chasing the dumb ass with the nice ass. Then i think it all comes down to lust. do you really love this man or do you crave for his attention and affection? Now ladies if you married and happy then this one doesn't apply to you but ladies if your single and chasing that chase stop and ask yourself...once you catch him will you still want him.....? One of the followers to this blog Ms. Chloe wrote this poem that you can tell came from a place where we have all been. where deep down you want to just snatch his ass up and shake him because you know your a good woman and you could make him happy but his dumb ass is to blind to see...I SAY IF HE ISN'T SMART ENOUGH TO SEE THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HIM IN YOUR HEART THEN KEEP PUSHING BECAUSE 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 HE WILL COME LOOKING FOR YOU SOMEDAY...LETS JUST HOPE FOR HIS BENEFIT YOU STILL HAVE TIME FOR HIM....

I'm trying to make this work
but i feel like you're not
i call no answer
you call i answer
its as if i'm chasing an unrealistic dream
but for an odd reason i just cant stop
dreaming this dream
what do i do when my feelings are so strong?
and my heart hurts because its tired
tired of chasing after your love
only to lose the race
after every meet
so in this time of confusion i write to you...
hoping that you will one
day soon understand my feelings
maybe you do understand and
just don't feel the same
but please if that's the case tell me!
so i can begin another race

Poem by Chloe