Monday, August 24, 2009

Quality Or Quantity

Tell me fellas why is it that most of you guys believe in quantity and not quality? Ladies you know what i mean. we have males friends that are talking to 3 or 4 girls, you might have had the a chance to meet some of these ladies and all you can think is they are all trash. I think there must be something in a guys head that its better to have a lot of different woman instead of having that one great one. Now tell me if I'm wrong fellas, But I have know a few woman who are the complete package they care for you, treat you like a king, there strong and smart. The Complete Package! But she isn't your only girl why? In my personal opinion I would rather have that one man who treats me right and is faithful than have 4 guys that treat me okay and are going out with other woman. Another thing men do that i don't understand is when that real woman has had a enough and leaves that's when you guys want her the most. Do men always want what they cant have? Is it all about the chase, and once she is yours it gets boring to you? I will never understand because women don't think like this. If we have a man at home and he is a real man then were okay with that. Well let me be fair some of us ladies are content with that. On the flip side of this more and more woman are starting to feel like there man isn't enough. The woman of today are thinking with the mentally of men. That we don't need to chase some man around and that we can be fine being single. But ladies how much of this is really true? Do we sometimes say this to hide the pain that were alone. I have been single and I have been in relationships and trust me both of them have there perks.I find it better to be in a relationship with the right person than be alone. And i find it better to be single if I cant find the right person. I guess it all depends on what floats your boat. I will say to my Fellas when you find that one woman who is the total package treat her right because the good ones always seem to get away and you never find out how good you had it until she is gone.

3 comments:

  1. I think this applies to a certain type of man. A WEAK MAN! A real knows having a bunch of woman doesnt make him complete. He knows that find him 1 good is all he needs

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  2. They say men are logical. Logical my azz. The only way I can understand a man's idea about having multiple women is the same way I have multiple shoes in the same damn color. It depends on the outfit. Depending on that moment in a man's day or life he wants a woman that will be suitable for that occasion. I feel that men piece stuff together until it ws.

    Horny he needs Ms. Freak-a-leak.
    Chillin he needs 'ol girl from next door.
    Hungry he needs Betty Crocker
    Sick he needs his mama

    And then when he is tired of piecing it together and he is ready for
    Business he calls the woman who can do it all. And as women we have to make him cut those cords he has with all of those women so ee can take our rightful place.

    Then we have to stay on our a game to remind his forgetful his forgetful ass that everything he needs is at home.

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  3. Hair dive i totally agree a Real man doesnt need more than one girl. This doesnt apply to men that are just dating I mean Real men in relationships.

    F13 Im loving the list. that breaks it down to a tee. Woman yes you must stay on your game you cant let your relationship slip throught the cracks and expect everything to be great!

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