Break up rules

You found yourself in a dead end relationship. You tried to make it work but its over....How do you break up without the drama? I have been through it all been cheated on and been the cheater. I have had all kinds of break-ups some with drama and some without. Some people love a messy break up I say its the ones who are opposing the break up. Breaking up should be easy and quick as possible the long drawn out breakups are for unsure people. So if you are sure about your choice then this will be simple. I say first confide in a friend. Not just some random person but a real friend someone that doesn't know the other person this way they will be there to support you and only you. Second stay strong hold your ground and keep your distance. If you and this person have mutual friends try and lay low as much as possible. Seeing this person will make it harder to get over them. Third keep busy take up a new hobby and try new things. Keeping busy will take up that empty space of free time you have. And last cry it out. Don't hold back your feelings if you feel like crying cry. It doesn't make you weak it makes you human. I never understood why people hold in there feelings like this. It will almost every time make you feel like you will explode. I don't care if you have been in a relationship for 2 months or 2 years breaking up is hard even more so if you don't agree to the break up. If you are getting broken up with keep your distance, maybe all the person needs is a little space. I wrote this for a friend of mine who needed some advice on how to get over an ex. I hope this helps....If you are following this blog and have any other suggestions please feel free to leave a comment. But to my friend stay strong god has you in his heart and he knows who is right for you...so be paitent your soul mate is on the way!