Thursday, October 29, 2009

Should I kick em' to the curb???????????

I get a lot of request from the ladies wanting to know when should cut their men off. This could answered in alot of different ways. I believe everyone is going to make a mistake or two and don't deserve to just be kicked to curb if they cut up a little. If your man is cheating on you does he deserve another chance? I think is also a case by case situation. If you and your man have not had sex for months because you just don't feel like it and then you find out he slept with someone else but was really sorry for it and admitted it...He might deserve another chance. I mean come on everyone has needs. If you and your man seem happy and he is just out in the streets and just wont stop cheating then you need to kick his sorry ass to the curb. Now if your man doesn't make enough money and you make more then him but he treats you good and works hard should you dump him...My opinion is absolutely not. I know alot of you are reading this right now saying who would leave a hard working man that doesn't make more money than them right...You guys would be surprised on some woman thinking.But that's a different topic. Ladies the answer to this is follow your brain and your heart. Equally. When it comes to love you must use both. Sometimes your heart will lead you one way and your brain will lead you another. Use the caring of your heart and the smarts of your brain to make tough decision in your relationship. With the balance of the two you cant go wrong.

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  1. "Use the caring of your heart and the smarts of your brain to make tough decision in your relationship" <-- couldn't have said it better myself!

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