Friday, October 2, 2009

Casually Dating....

So your casually dating and find out that he has a few girls he is dating or even worse a girlfriend....What Now? Your feelings may be involved but its time to do some evaluations on them. I know easier said than done but what choice do you have? Okay first things first, the first situation is your casually dating and your catching feelings as much i want to say try not to catch them shit happens. So he tells you that he is seeing other girls. I say go with your instinct's on this one if you feel okay with it than roll with it but if it makes you feel uncomfortable than end it. even though Casually dating means not obligations no strings no ties. You still have the option to end the fling or whatever you choose to call it whenever you like. Now for situation #2 your casually dating and you find out that he has a girlfriend but he still wants to see you...What do you do? I say lay low if you want to try and stay friends that is something that will almost every time fail, because their is temptation there. This is no different than meeting a man that is in a relationship. If you were just hanging out with this guy and he chooses someone else then he probably wasn't looking at you as girlfriend material. This is only obvious because he would have picked you. These are my opinions and i know a lot of this is easier said than done. Dating is one of the hardest things you will ever have to do but it is also a lot of fun. Just try and keep you eyes on whats really important and that's making yourself happy..

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