Monday, February 15, 2010

DONT LET REAL LOVE PASS YOU BY...

you have been together for a while and you love them and enjoy them but your just not sure if you should just say forget it and settle all the way down. the main reason your holding out is because you are saving yourself for your soul mate.....Its a common situation. No one ones to settle mostly because they feel like the Mr./Ms right will come and go....But lets stop and think sometimes the opposite happens you have Mr./Ms. right right under your nose and you let them go. So how do you know if you have them right in front of your face?? This is a feeling deep down in your soul something you cant turn off. You wake up and this person is on your mind you go to bed with this person on your mind. You find yourself worrying about this person more than you think about yourself. Chances are you have what you are looking for right in front of your face. As humans we are always looking to come up we wanna show up and then show out. So we tend to go after the wrong things Main thing being looks. Ladies have you ever met a man that was so beautiful on the eye but ugly on the heart??? I know I have. As strong women we need to move past the Okie Doke and go after the real. Not the oh he is so fine or oh he has a nice car.....Lets wake up and realize that as we work on us all of those material things don't mean shit in the long run. Having a real spouse someone to grow old with someone to have and to hold is the real meaning or a relationship and love.If you are with someone and they deep down make you feel like you are number one on there list open your eyes and realize in what you got. Invest in yourself and invest in them. Looks can fade and money can get spent but Everlasting love will be around forever! As always open your minds and your hearts will follow.....