Thursday, December 17, 2009

Letting Go!!!

Nothing is harder about love then losing it or letting it go. Losing love is hard because when you lose love its against your will. This can leave you feeling powerless. There are also times in love when you have to let it go. To me this is even more difficult than losing love. To let go and learn to move on takes will power and a lot of tears but is sometimes necessary to become a stronger person later in life. Lets admit not all love is good for everyone. Let me explain. In order to have a functioning loving relationship it needs to be a two way street. Meaning both parties love the same amount. Sometimes in relationships or certain situations you might find yourself loving the other person more than they love you. As heartbreaking this can be it does happen. This is where Heartbreak starts. Not everyone loves the same way and this is very important to know also. I say if you find yourself always upset behind this person maybe it just isn't worth it. When do you cross the line of being supportive and just being taken advantage of. Someone taking advantage of your love is one of the most painful experiences you will ever experience. Don't let anyone get so far into your head that they make you feel like your not worthy or like nothing you do isn't good enough. When is it time to pull your love away??? when you feel like you are changing everything about yourself or when you just feel the love fade away. If this does happen to you or ever happened use it to your advantage and learn and grow from it. NO ONE IS WORTH GIVING UP YOUR HAPPINESS FOR...NO ONE!!!

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