Thursday, September 10, 2009

You have to know the past to understand the present.

Does anyone else wish you had a magic wand where you could go back in time and change who you dated? I know I do. Why does it seem like the past always comes back to haunt you when you least expect it? I think for learning purposes only. The other day I was talking to a friend of mine and they wish they could go back to high school and do everything differently. So this made me wonder what things would I change if i could? I don't even know where I would start but I know that everything that has happened in my life has been for a reason. But I cant help but wonder what it would be like to not had met certain people or have feelings for them. would it change the way I view love now....I guess I would never know. Everyone I have met and/or dated has shaped me into the person that I am now. That's the way it is. Someone taught me how to love and how to kiss and how to make love. Hell I even learned how to break hearts from my first heartbreak. That made me strong and how to appreciate what I have while I have it. So I wouldn't even take that back. There is always something going on whether your single or in a relationship that shapes you as the woman you are today. My answer to this is I wouldn't change shit about my past because it has made me real at this moment.



What you need to know about the past is that no matter what has happened, it has all worked together to bring you to this very moment. And this is the moment you can choose to make everything new right now





"You can clutch the past so tight to your chest that it leaves your arms to full to embrace the future" ~Jan Glidewell





~Unparagoned Woman

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