Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Interracial dating who's for it? Who's against it?
So what do you think about interracial dating? Being from two different races myself this answer should be cut and dry for me you would think but my answer is complicated. I grew up in a era when seeing a black teenage boy walking hand and hand with a black girl was pretty much obsolete. This would bother me. I am mixed with black and white but look black. So I couldn't help but take offense to hear black men talk about black woman as if they weren't good enough for them. I believe everyone has the right to be with who they want to be with. I'm not against any race or sex being together. That's just not for me to judge. I have heard black men say it all when it comes to interracial dating like I only date white girls because black and Mexican girls have too much attitude for me. Or I have heard them say that they are players and the reason why they cant date black girls is because they cant do black woman wrong. I mean this is so wrong on so many levels. First of all I think alot of times society has some how made white woman look like they have no back bone and will do whatever there man wants and let them dog them out. WRONG!! In what city is this shit happening in??? lol because my momma is white and she has never let a man run her. I have alot of friends that are white and they are the same way. Second of all just because your black momma kicked your ass growing up if you didn't take out the trash doesn't mean that black woman have attitudes. Black woman have endured alot of scrutiny about this... yes we have spunk about us and its what gives us our edge but I wouldn't call it attitude. Black men have the same attitude. so should all black woman start dating white men? I could go on and on about this when there is one bottom line.....Date someone because you like the person they are not because there skin color is the right color for you. Let go of all the stereotypes and date who makes you happy get to know them for who they are. I can almost guarantee this will end up alot better for you long term.
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