Saturday, September 5, 2009
Can you be in love with two people??
Its a simple question with a difficult answer...Can you be in love with two people at the same time? I don't think so. I say this because to be in love with some means to truly dedicate yourself to this person fully. Now there is a trick to this question. Can you be love two people at the same time and my answer to this is YES! A lot of people don't understand the difference between being in love and loving someone. For example you love your friends but your not in love with them. Being in love with some again is to where you are completed committed to just loving this person in a romantic way. When you have committed to being in love with some you don't have any room left to be in love with anyone else. I think you can love as many people as you want. Because to love some is feeling and being in love is a feeling accompanied by actions. Also alot of the time people get confused with being in love and being in lust. To lust for someone means it is strictly a sexually or emotional feeling the thought of being intimate with this person or touching or kissing this person. The power of lust is so strong that it can very well be confused for being in love. Here are ways to figure this thing out. First ask yourself how often do you think of this person and what are you doing when you think about them if you think of this person after you have had some drinks or if they walk into a room chances are you just lust for them. Now if you wake up thinking about this person and fall asleep thinking about this person then you may be in love. Also you need to ask yourself could you see yourself spending the rest of your life with this person as a friend and as a lover. If you answer no you are basically saying that after you get what you want out of this person you may be done. These are reason people should use the "L" word very carefully because not only can you confuse the person that your telling but you could confuse yourself also.
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