Once a cheater always a cheater???

Do you believe once a cheater always a cheater?? I think in most cases yes. Before you disagree listen to some of the reasons why I think this way. First, some people grow up in households where they watched someone cheater or have various partners. Some it is a natural thing to have more than one person at a time. Also I think that when people are in a serious relationship and get hurt really bad by a spouse it makes them want to never be put back in the situation to where they give there heart to one person and trust. I have been cheated on and I have cheated on people lets be honest its a whole lot easier to be the cheater than to be cheated on. I was cheated on first and when I felt that pain I said I would never cheat on anyone but then I forgot the pain and just felt like the smart thing to do was not to fall so deep for someone that I would get hurt like that again. When I got caught cheating I remembered that feeling when I looked at his face. I then felt so bad and I couldn't help but wonder if he would now be scared because of me? Would he cheat on someone because he will put up that same guard that made me cheat? I don't know but that was a huge weight to think that maybe I changed the way even one man thought about women. Being cheated on is one of the worse feelings but cheating on someone you care about also has it cons. It will put a strain on you. And eventually come to the light. If your married this will be even worse. So whatever your reason for cheating try and think about what damage your really creating. Once a cheater always a cheater?.... cheaters you have it in you, but a strong person can get through anything and break the cycle.

"It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to be sometimes cheated than to not trust"
~Samuel Johnson