Tuesday, September 29, 2009
What goes around comes around
So you think you have finally met the person you thought you could spend a lifetime with then...You find out he is in a relationship...What do you do?? My answer to this is one of mass confusion. If he is married does that make him no longer the man you could see yourself with? What if he is not in a relationship and he is dating several different people? This is a tough one. As much as I would like to sit here and say never talk to man if he is in a relationship we have all done it. some of us knew some of us didn't but its almost certain that it has happened. Okay I'm going to try and write about my opinions of this without pissing off as many of you as possible but hey this is what i do. I have to keep it real....In the case of the married man I think that if you meet this man and you fall for him and he tells you he is married you need to back the hell off! I say this because...say in the 1 in a hundred chance he leaves his wife for you. His ass will cheat on you too....Why?? KARMA is a bitch!! If you happen to meet a man and he is in the process of leaving his wife but he wants you make his ass wait. If it is worth it, it will be. Seeing a married man is in no way okay. And you have to think what is going to make you so different that you think he wont cheat on you later. Now this is where things start to get tricky Say you meet a man and he is in a relationship now what? The right thing to do is keep it pushing but we know that's not easily done. The only thing I can do in this situation is speak from experience if he is with her there is something about her he likes more than you...so move on! Seeing a man in a relationship is bad but not as bad as a married man....(just my opinion) Lastly what happens if you are casually seeing a man and he tells you that he is dating more than you...ALOT MORE. Is this an automatic deal breaker? I think not. The reason I say this is because i have dated different guys at one time and there wasn't any other reason behind it besides I'm casually dating people. You know weighting my options. Woman take this seriously and if you do that means that he was casually dating you and you were falling in love. With all of this being said ladies open your eyes if he is doing it to one woman chances are he will do it to you.
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I feel it is wrong to date someone who you know is married. Some women don't know or find out much later than they prefer. But to knowing sleep with a married man is
ReplyDeleteinexcusable,under any circumstance. For one men lie. When men want sex they will say or do damn near anything including saying they are separated, the marriage has been over, its just a paper. All kinds of things. Then you as an understanding woman begin the cycles of settling. Because he is allowed to have his cake and eat it happily. In addition to all of this you are getting attached thinking he really wants you and could end up having a mistress for the mistress or an even bigger slapped in the face and go back to his wife. Then you are scarred and bitter. Vows clearly say til death do us part not feelings. Save yourself heartache and don't mess with men in relationships or men you haven't gone to their house or momma's house.