Making love or having sex?

We say it to someone we care about and some people use it because it sounds good at the time. The word is love and in the context that I'm speaking the word is making love. Whats the difference between having sex and making love? I say a huge difference. When having sex and making love most think the basics are just about the same but I think they are complete different. To have sex with some all it takes is an action, two people and that's about it. You don't have to have feelings for this person hell you don't even have to know the persons name. It is strictly physical. Pretty much 95% of relationship start of with just a sexually chemistry and there is nothing wrong with that. How can you just meet someone and make love to them. To make love with someone is more mental than physical. To be connected with someones mind body and soul is a very powerful thing. When making love you are one with this person. It just feels better because its so much more complete. Don't get me wrong when your with your spouse there are going to be times where being soft and gentle are going to be the farthest thing from your mind. I think this help to keep things fresh with your partner. In my opinion variety is key in making your relationship work. you can most defiantly have sex with someone you love but its impossible to make love to someone you don't love. Woman we are especially sensitive to this. If you meet a guy and you guys have sex try to take it for what it is to avoid getting hurt. Because we are the more sensitive sex we tend to wear our hearts on our sleeves. This is just in our nature. Fellas keep it real with us don't tell us you want to make love to us if you don't love us. Ladies lets do the same...