New jack females...

Okay ladies how many of you have grandmothers that have been married for 50 years? Do you ever wonder why marriages use to last that long? I know I did but i think i might have figured it out. I was brought up to be a strong don't need no man kind of girl. My mom always told me that I don't need to clean up after a man or cook for a man, I'm not saying this was not the right way to raise me because i think i turned out great. .lol but it wasn't until i went to my aunts house that i saw a woman chillen, having a conversation with me until her man walked in.....girl she got up kissed her man helped him take off his shoes offered him a drink i was sitting there with my mouth open....what was she doing catering to this man's every need. I mean she was on point. I was like 22 and was brought up that a woman who does all of that was some kind of pushover. So I asked my aunt do you do that everyday and she said yea why i told her i cant do all that for no man she said well where is your man I said I don't have one she said well shit I see why..... At that moment I said she was just clownin until it clicked I didn't have a man if i did get a man we would break up in a few months a lot short of 50 years. I had to really sit and think what is wrong with pampering your man treating him like a king? ABSOLUTLY NOTHING....it takes giving some to get some and the more you give the more you get. I'm not saying give this treatment to your man in hopes of getting some back but when he is a good man and he deserves it. You will get so much joy out of making him happy. To see him smile and know that you treat this man like no other is so self rewarding. Woman back in the day were not afraid to show there man how they felt they would cook all day for there man iron there clothes and let them watch there sports without no problems. And would be married for decades! I don't know about you ladies but I see something in this scenario that makes me want to take the more humble approach of taking care of my man. We can still have a voice and a backbone and show our man that we love them and we will take care of them. I say this because there is something I had to learn the hard way because i was never told this.... BUT WHAT YOU DON'T DO FOR YOUR MAN THERE ARE A HUNDRED OTHER WOMAN THAT WILL..


Treat your men right ladies the right ones are so worth it!





- unparagoned woman