They smile in your face.....Backstabbers

One of the fans of this blog asked me to touch on the subject of Backstabbing friends I have really only had one friend turn her back on me and all it took was that for me to let my guard go up. This is a very touchy subject because you have the person who has been hurt and the person who is causing the hurt. I don't know about you fellas but woman are cold hearted when it comes to hurting another woman's feelings we will pull out all the stops! Men tend to either not talk to the person ever again or fight. I guess this is where men and woman are so different. For woman if you have been friends with this person for a long time than it is alot harder to just stopping to this person. You guys most likely have the same friends and hang out at the same places. But you have to ask yourself what makes this woman that you have been friends with just flip on you and turn her back? There is alot of answers to this but I know the main one is JEALOUSY...yep the green eyed monster! This is where you need to learn to cut yourself from the drama and move on. If your so called friend is jealous over something positive you have done in your life than you need to cut the negative from your life. when you step up in life and it becomes a positive thing so keeping the negative around you is a oxymoron. Sometimes in life you have to take the bad with the good but not when it comes to this. Anyone that isn't happy for your success needs to keep it pushing. Don't allow yourself to be stressed over this person. Ladies if you find yourself jealous of your friends than that means you need to work on some self improvement. Use this as motivation to strive yourself. Everyone has come across a back stabber in there day but how you choose to deal with it is totally up to you....good luck with dealing with your backstabber but remember people can only put you through what you allow them to out you through...Own your life and move on!



~ A competent and self-confident person is incapable of jealousy in anything. Jealousy is invariably a symptom of neurotic insecurity. ~
-Robert A. Heinlein